Senin, 20 Juli 2015

I tell you, "go tell her"


The bad part for not showing your love is the possibility that...
He may marry somegirl who is amazing, and she’s not you. 
I dont know why love’d rather be left unspoken, how bad things or good things will come following this decision. You may lose her/him.You will have to accept that she will be someone’s love. And also bad thing is she may never knew abot your feeling. Why dont you wonder if she also feels the same way with you, she may love you too, but she thinks you dont feel the same. How tragic it will become. Two people who fall to each other but cant be together because of untold feeling. Because sometimes, love someone who doesnt love you back is such a damn really bad thing. It could be so desperating, frustating. Being unloved is the most unwanted thing to be in the world. Everyone should believe that there is someone who will love her back. Accept her with her own self. Love things she hate about her self. Make her feels worthy no matter how she feels bad about her self. Someone who never give up on her. Have her back. Guide her to find path on her vision. Never be bad to her. Just do the good things, together. Be a happiest couple with no worry about breaking up. Have no bad thought because they have faith on each other. Stand by each other and tell “no matter how hard it will became, i believe we can go through it all, we are a partner, a team, noone can join or separate us.”

Jumat, 03 Juli 2015

introduce myself

ENFP Traits - “The Inspirers”

Positive Traits:
  • Fun loving & lots of fun to be around
  • Free-spirited
  • Deeply caring and concerned for others
  • Very perceptive and insightful about people’s thoughts and motives – gifted at understanding others
  • Friendly and open – people are drawn to them
  • Warmhearted and genuinely kind
  • Typically possess a great sense of humor
  • Generally very funny
  • Supportive and encouraging
  • Good communicators
  • Extremely motivational and inspirational
  • Tend to bring out the best in others
  • Affectionate and affirming
  • Lively, dramatic, energetic, enthusiastic
  • Their passion and enthusiasm are contagious
  • Optimistic
  • Typically loyal and dedicated
  • Driven to help others and meet needs
  • Always looking for the “perfect relationship”
  • View life as a special gift and strive to make the most of it
  • Broad range of skills, talents – good at almost anything that interests them
  • Often have ability to “talk their way out of anything”
  • Usually possess strong, consistent values that they adhere strictly to
  • Need to feel that they are living their lives as their true selves and in accordance with what they feel is right
  • Continually striving to achieve inner peace
  • Emotionally excitable
  • Often intense individuals
  • Value and need alone time to sort things out in their minds
  • Possess strong people skills – genuinely interested in others
  • Place great importance on their personal relationships
  • Flexible and easygoing
  • Strong ability to intuitively perceive truths about people and situations
  • Live in a world of exciting possibilities
  • Are basically happy people
  • Alert and sensitive – constantly scanning their environments
  • Strong need to be independent – they resist being controlled or labeled
  • Have no desire to control others and dislike the idea of doing so
  • Charming
  • Risk-takers
  • Generally well-liked
Negative Traits:
  • Tend to occasionally make serious errors in judgment – when they apply their less developed judgment to their highly develop intuitions, they may jump to the wrong conclusion
  • Can, at times, be overly anxious and worrisome
  • Tend to get bored easily
  • Can be impulsive (menuruti kata hati)
  • Prone to hold onto bad relationships for far too long
  • Their enthusiasm may cause them to be unrealistic
  • Not good with or interested in dealing with mundane daily tasks such as paying bills, cleaning, etc.
  • Strongly dislike conflict and criticism
  • May not pay enough attention to their own needs
  • Continual search for the “perfect relationship” may cause them to change partners frequently
  • May (falsely) come off as directionless wanderers to onlookers
  • Tendency to not follow through on projects, usually because they get excited about a new project and abandon the first for the second – this may become a problematic cycle
  • May be overly concerned with being liked
  • Not good with detailed-related tasks
  • Always seeing the possibility of what could be often causes them become bored with what actually is 
(Sources: http://myersbriggspersonalitytypes.tumblr.com/aboutmbti)